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23rd March 2008, 21:47 | #1 | |
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Breastfeeding at work and other things
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And also I see that shift workers get some love, but weekend workers with Monday off still get shafted.
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23rd March 2008, 22:10 | #2 |
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Just sounds like lip service in order to get the "Mom" vote to me. What is the point of being able to breastfeed at work if you're not able to have a baby with you at work? Pointless, but undoubtedly it'll win the La Leche nazi's over.
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23rd March 2008, 22:23 | #3 |
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I'm fine with it on the fact that mothers shouldn't be discriminated against but on the count that mothers are best served by being mothers at home? That's what Labour needs to endorse.
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23rd March 2008, 22:49 | #4 | |
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i for one welcome the right to lactate in the workplace, and have long been a fan of long tea breaks. btw, mothers are mothers in society, not just at home... ...so haydos, cook me some eggs, bitch.
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Yeah, um, dude - we kinda got over that type of misogynist BS quite awhile ago - probably before you were born. |
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24th March 2008, 00:44 | #7 |
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24th March 2008, 00:59 | #8 |
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Yeah, but you only have 10 min to enjoy that popcorn. FFS who has a less than 15 min tea break?
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24th March 2008, 01:40 | #10 |
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meh, my 30 minute lunch break is already paid
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24th March 2008, 08:34 | #11 | |
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24th March 2008, 09:20 | #12 |
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^^ I concur - when we were doing the ante natal thing, they flatly refused to give any advice on what would happen if you were unable to BF, and had to use formula. Bingo.
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24th March 2008, 09:42 | #14 |
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Yes we had the same issues when my wife gave birth to our daughter. She required a c section due to complication hence her milk took a little longer than normal to arrive. When I asked about a formula for our daughter I was told that we can't tell you to use a formula you have to ask for it and oh can you sign this form. Um we have a crying hungry baby and you can't tell me to use a formula...fuckers.
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Don't worry, be harpy
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24th March 2008, 11:13 | #16 | |
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If you take a look at the healthiness of children, it's a proven fact that those that have the mother (not the father) stay at home for the formulative years of their life are far more healthy, happy and intelligent on a general basis. Labour being left wing needs to encourage this - do they not? That's the idea of a left wing party National being centre/right shouldn't encourage it, they should encourage stable relationships and the earning power of the couple together to allow the mother to stay home. |
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24th March 2008, 13:15 | #17 | |
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You think that Labour being "left wing" (as if that actually means something specific) or Liberal means that they want women to stay at home with the kids? Do you have any idea about anything? |
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24th March 2008, 13:20 | #18 |
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Too much emphasis is placed on the freedom of the parent. I think it's important for the child to have at least one parent at home.
For most of my childhood our father was at home while mum worked so I don't think it matters so much which parent it is. |
24th March 2008, 13:21 | #19 | |
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Finally someone gets it right. |
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24th March 2008, 13:42 | #20 | |
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nz is so analysed with statistics eventually they find stupid problems that are probably made up to start with
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24th March 2008, 14:00 | #21 |
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"left wing" is all about social equality and fairer distribution of wealth
mothers should have the opportunity to reenter the workforce if they choose to. lower incomed families should have the opportunity to move out of poverty. that is why Labour has introduced things such as Working for Families, 20 hours free early childhood education, and now these breastfeeding changes. Labour is not doing this just to get the "mom" vote.... it is part of a deliberate and well thought out process of social change.
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24th March 2008, 15:25 | #23 | |
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24th March 2008, 16:33 | #24 |
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It's great that the government want to encourage women to continue bfeeding their babies for as long as possible, because there is no doubt that in most cases, breast is best. However, most women don't have the luxury of having their babies close by when they're at work, so really it's more about making it easier for women to express at work (as Sponge said I think). Again, that's great because it's still breast milk. However, I really doubt (have no evidence for this, it's just based on my gut) that most women who go back into fulltime work would continue to bfeed/express whilst at work. Expressing is a pain in the ass, and is time-consuming. I'd imagine that women returning to the workforce full time would either wean their babies completely, or just bfeed the breakfast and bedtime feeds. So really this legislation will just look good, but be of no practical relevance to many women. Additonally, I agree with Haydos when he says that the government should really be encouraging mums to stay at home with their kids. I think many women would leap at the chance to stay home with their kids for at least the first five yers. I'm sure there are some who return to work early because they just love their job so much, but I think most women return to work before they or their baby is ready simply because of financial necessity. I know that WFF has made it possible for many mums to stay at home, but I think the government needs to do more (a better paid parental leave system maybe?). Kids need a parent at home during their formative years, and I'm not impressed with the government enticing mums (generally) of pre-school children back into the work force with the 20hours free childcare carrot. Edit - as for La Leche, it's a bit rough calling them bfeeding nazis. A friend of mine contacted them when she was having a hard time feeding, and they were a great support to her *shrugs* As far as I know the only way you're going to have contact with them is if you instigate it. It's not like they're roaming maternity wards bombarding women with propaganda. Last edited by chiquelet : 24th March 2008 at 16:37. |
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24th March 2008, 18:48 | #27 |
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Boob -> pump -> bottle -> fridge
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24th March 2008, 19:01 | #28 |
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I remember being told about this when I was pregnant the first time, that when I returned to work my employer would have to allow time for me to bf or express as well as provide a suitable location to do so, i.e. not the womens toilets. We don't have a sick bay or anything like that and all the offices have see through glass walls so fuck knows where I would have done it?? Not that I would have wanted to at work anyway really..
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24th March 2008, 19:04 | #29 |
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Breastfeed baby in the morning. Boobies empty. Nothing to express.
Go to work. Boobies fill up during the day. By mid afternoon, your over-full breasts are screaming in pain and your nipples are leaking through your shirt. I am told that this situation is suboptimal from perspectives of comfort, convenience, and professionalism. |
25th March 2008, 09:04 | #30 | |
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Unlike the govt subsidised mob who are there to make you feel that you are a bad parent for choosing to bottlefeed. And in fact go out of their way to fail entirely to provide any reasonable information to enable informed decision making. The "breast is best" mob really piss me off. It is worse than dealing with a bunch of slavering religious nut hell bent on converting you. For parents who have medical needs for bottlefeeding they still try to make you feel like a second class person and concentrate on the breast feeding to the detriment of everything else. We experienced this with two children. The first required a visit to starship on his third day after WE insisted the paedetrician saw him. THe hospital midwives were more concerned about him breastfeeding (he wasn't properly. The second child was a masher (caused my wife to bleed) and my wife had significant other medical complications which nearly killed her but again the midwives were totally focussed on the breast feeding and didnt really seem to give a shit about mum. For our last child we turned up and said "she's being botttle fed with formula". The hospital midwife looked like we had just spat in her eye. All for breast feeding if it is practical but I think there is too much negative publicity against bottle feeding. For the first 6 weeks sure it isbest since bubs gets anitbodies from mum but why do you think they have 6 weeek immunisation shots?? Because after that time mum is just providing milk. /me passes Ab more popcorn
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25th March 2008, 10:19 | #31 | |
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Painty - sounds like your wife had a rotten time of it :/ Common story though, whether through the hospital system or La Leche, the "Breast Is Best" squad really do seem to do an awful lot of judging at a really sensitive time. It's just one of those things though, everyone has a strong opinion on childrearing - they all know what worked for them, or their mothers, wives, sisters hairdressers dog-groomers next-door-neighbour ... and try to ram it down peoples throats like it's gospel. Personally - if you've had a good lactating experience through La Leche, awesome. I just don't know many who have. And if you can breastfeed at work, cool. Again, I just can't see how this would work for most people. I have been at workplaces which have allowed for breastfeeding & have supplied nursing rooms - and they were completely unused. It's all well and good to say "we want breastfeeding allowed at work", but to me this doesn't fix a damn thing. Mothers can't afford to stay at home and look after their kids, and workplaces still expect mothers to work overtime/weekends/never take sick days, and judge them as "weak" and not worthy of promotion or payraise if they can't. Looking at how the workplace treats mothers, this law change just seems .. well, completely fucking redundant. Disclaimer; The opinions in this rant are solely the property of the writer, and are worth approximately what you paid for them. The writer reserves the right to dislike La Leche, whiney non-smokers (or any other band-wagoners), fervent born-again Christians, arrogant cyclists who ride three abreast through town and any other closed-minded loud-mouthed bigots obsessed with their own point of view and blind to anyone else’s. Cheers. |
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25th March 2008, 10:34 | #32 |
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Next thing we know workplaces will need to supply a creche
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25th March 2008, 10:37 | #33 |
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Look, too many people want to throw the little spanner up about "What about the man staying at home" to remove the perceived sexism that seems to have propped up in the thirty years or so.
When children are taken into account - the best place for a woman to be is home.. this is not because women are lesser than men, this is simply because they are better suited through thousands and thousands of years of evolving due to environment and hardwired genetics to be better nurturers, teachers and carers for their children then men are. There are of course exceptions to the rules but in my viewpoint and if I ever have a child, it will be with a mother who wants to spend the formulative years of her childs life, living at home with the child. Labour supports the idea of welfare and being able to afford a family, well look at the discipline issues and the creeping nature of abnormal psychology in the youth today - funnily how it coinsides with women working throughout their childrens life these days, when compared to older times, huh? You can't erase the natural instincts of nurture just because of female liberation - while I support this and I myself am with a girl who is very much a career professional, the moment children are involved, the thought should be "What is best for the child" - not "What is best for the parent" |
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25th March 2008, 12:29 | #37 | |
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You've contributed nothing but cliche bullshit to this thread, largely because you lack the ability to think on a subject.. in short, you have the brain of a vegetable - please, go vegetate somewhere. |
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25th March 2008, 12:40 | #38 |
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"Women should stay at home"
"I'm not having kids with a working woman" Got original? |
25th March 2008, 12:57 | #39 |
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He's already admitted he's a troll
Why do you all keep feeding him?
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25th March 2008, 13:07 | #40 |
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Really? I missed that
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